They say that laughter and happiness is contagious. Holidays bring out the best in so many of us, but can also bring upon a lot of stress and unhappiness. Regardless of what time of year it is, there are a few key habits that can help you lead a happier life. I’m sharing my top 3 habits that have contributed to better living, less stress and best of all, more happiness.
Being True to Yourself
Choosing to focus on the things that you love and doing activities you enjoy the most is truly a great way to be happy. There will be times people will invite you to do activities you don’t enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to say no. If you value those friendships, it’s more important to reciprocate and ask them to do things you both enjoy instead. Being true to yourself and doing more of the things you love will ultimately lead to finding friends who have similar interests. Best of all, you’re not feeling like you’re wasting time or money on things that you don’t love.
Compliments & Random Acts of Kindness
One of the best, and in my opinion, easiest ways of being happy is performing random acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. I am not referring to offering money or going completely out of the way for someone. Opening the door for someone who has their hands full, buying coffee for the person behind you and even complimenting someone at work for things they probably hardly get recognized for are great random acts of kindness. On my my favourites is offering compliments to people who might are dressed well, have great hair or gorgeous skin. Remember, we are our own worst critics and don’t always feel great. A compliment goes a very long way and can make someone’s day. It’s amazing how grateful people feel when you perform random acts of kindness. It brings happiness to others, and in itself easily brings a smile to your face.
Exercise or Meditate
Not everyone loves sports or working out like my husband and I do, but if you do love an activity, or sport, fitting it into your lifestyle can really help you relieve stress. Either way, finding that outlet is important to overall well being. Activities that really help reduce stress and elevate happiness are yoga and meditation. You can learn great breathing techniques and help you unwind, breathe and clear your mind. In my personal experience, Body Flow (a form of Yoga) has helped me manage sleeplessness and unforeseen anxiety.
Plenty of Sleep
Getting a good night’s rest is a huge pick me up. It’s a no brainer for all of us, isn’t it? Have you ever been invited to some kind of dinner or event and have wanted to tell that person that you’re just too tired to attend? I know I have. Exhaustion often means less energy for friends, time spent on things you love and patience throughout the day. Make sure you get plenty of rest throughout the week so that you lead a happier, healthier life.
Embrace the Child In You
Have you ever looked at kids and think, wouldn’t it be nice to be so carefree, creative and happy? Reliving your childhood is something worth holding onto. While there are many situations where you should be self aware and not behave like a child, bringing back a piece of childhood and taking life less seriously is incredibly refreshing.
Last weekend, I had a little more fun with style, wearing something a little more carefree and fun. I love the playful print and bright colors. There’s something really youthful in wearing bright colors and bold patterns that brightens the day.
I hope you all have a wonderful well-rested week filled with happy moments that brighten each day. If you enjoyed this post, leave me a comment below. What is your tip for living a happier life?
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Sweater by Kenzo X H&M Collaboration available here. Shoes by Emporio Armani. Denim by ZARA. Bag by Chanel (Vintage). I’ve linked similar items below:
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Xo,
Miki
Photo credit to my one and only, Rise Again BJJ.
Being true to yourself is such an important step! Wish I could also sleep more since I never get enough sleep. Great post and outfit. Have a lovely week! <3
Andreea,
http://couturezilla.com/
I need more sleep too. lol Thanks Andreea!
Xo,
Miki
What an amazing look and post! I don;t know where to start from! 🙂 First of all the Kenzo x HM top is fabulous and you styled it to perfection! Such a great balance of edgy chic! I agree with all your points here and these actions are always in my self development routine. Something else that helped me a lot was staying away from what we call “toxic people”, that are the opposite of what you are describing here, and my life got instantly better. Meditation and good sleep, and acts of kindness are critical for my well being too 🙂
Thank you so much for sharing, hope you are having an amazing start to the week my dear Miki!
xoxo
Stella
http://www.stellaasteria.com
Thanks so much Stella! I loved this collection. Staying away from people who are negative is so important. Life is too short for bad vibes, am I right? 🙂 I still need more sleep! Have a great week babe.
Xo,
Miki
Beautiful look! I like your sweater 🙂
Kisses!
http://www.alasdeangel.net
Thanks!
Xo,
Miki
These are such great tips girl, thanks for the inspo and your sweater is so chic!
Camila,
My Vogue Style | http://www.myvoguestyle.com
Thanks Camila!
Xo,
Miki
Such an amazing post! It is really so important to be true to yourself and get plenty of sleep 🙂 Love the top by the way.. the HM x KENZO collaboration is such a fun and chic collection 🙂
XO Jessi,
http://www.mywhitet.com/ootd-recap-2/
Great collection right? I seriously need more sleep! Have a great week Jessi!
Xo,
Miki
Beautiful photos and outfit dear, thanks for sharing!
Faye .x
Blog: http://www.fayeisabella.co.uk/2016/11/platform.html
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/fayeisabella
Thanks,
Miki
I really really love this sweater on you!!! Your smile and these colours make me very happy! Thanks for these tips sweetie! I also try to have my ways to stay happy and don’t feel too stressed… Taking a bath before I go to bed and staying true to myself (and what and who I find important) really help! I hope you have a wonderful week and can’t wait to see the other items that you shopped at the Kenzo & H&M collection. Xx Susanne – http://bagatyou.com
Thanks so much Susanne! I really need to take more baths. I usually sit in a steam shower for 1o minutes now though. It helps my dehydrated skin, too. Have a lovely week babe.
Xo,
Miki
This post is great! I truly believe that if we get enough sleep and exercise, more than half of our troubles go away 🙂 You look amazing BTW!
xo, Maryam
http://www.glamandposh.com
I do too! I really need to sleep more. lol Thanks Maryam!
Xo,
Miki
so in love with your Sweater
http://carrieslifestyle.com
Thanks!
Xo,
Miki
Love this Kenzo x HM sweater! It look amazing on you and I love the colors. I agree with you especially during the holidays it is important to remember to be grateful and happy for what we have. These are great tips and thanks for sharing. Have a great Thanksgiving week! xoxo, Christine
http://dailykongfidence.com/
Beautiful photos and I love all of your tips! One thing I need to be better at is getting more sleep!
Tina
http://www.justatinabit.com
Same here! Thanks Tina!
Xo,
Miki
Girl, you totally rock that look, and to be honest, that sweater is the best thing I’ve seen today.
Beautiful, I’m totally keeping track of you.
Thanks Mary!
Xo,
Miki
What a cute and cool sweater!!!
http://sbr-fashion-fashion.blogspot.com
Thanks Andy!
Xo,
Miki
Most importantly, you have to be true to yourself. I totally agree will all your tips. You’re so wise and beautiful ?
Thanks Deddeh! Being true to yourself is so important. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
your earrings are so nice!! 🙂
x tiphaine
http://www.tiphainemarie.com/
Thanks!
Xo,
Miki
I love this sweater on you, you look gorgeous! I totally agree with your habits, sleep ad positive affirmations are a must for me 🙂 xx
Definitely. And, I totally could use much more sleep! Thanks Jasna!
Xo,
Miki
Apart from the fact that you look stunning in that Kenzo x H&M collab I really appreciate your tips of habits. I’m actually quite good at most of them, BUT I do not get enough of sleep and that seriously dampens all the other habits as insufficient amount of sleep leads to your body revolting. 🙁 So I have to and will improve on that!
Thanks for a great post sweetie!
xoxo
Thomas
I definitely could use more sleep too! Thanks Thomas!
Xo,
Miki
This Place amanzing
I love your look
http://www.sabrinizza.com
Thanks Sabrina!
Xo,
Miki
That’s great tips! Thanks for sharing! I love this top by the way!
http://violettedaily.com
Thanks Violette! H&M X KENZO is a pretty sweet collection. So fun!
Xo,
Miki
Being kind to others I feel like really comes back.. and sleep, I can’t ever get enough of it! Haha. Love how you styled the sweater 🙂
I agree! Thanks Samantha!
Xo,
Miki
Hey babe!
You are looking absolutely fabulous and definitely are rocking the Kenzo X H&M Collection at its best! Loving your blog and how stylish everything is! Also the photos are simply stunning!
Love,
Cindy
http://bellezarebel.com/
Thanks Cindy!! You’re so sweet. I hope you have a lovely weekend.
Xo,
Miki
http://mikialalmode.com
This is such an inspiring article! I totally agree with you, I try to be selfless, but it doesn’t work all the time. Still, practice makes perfect!:)
I looove your blouse by the way 😉
http://thewonderfashion.blogspot.com
Thanks so much Anaivilo! Definitely not always easy to be completely selfless. It does feel great to do something for others once in awhile though. 🙂 Have a great week!
Xo,
Miki
These are absolutely tips we need to ruminate over every day! I especially agree with complimenting others (I do it as often as possible) and including movement in your life – exercising has helped me so much lately with stress relief and feeling more energized. Hopefully I’ll add the sleep factor on there soon. I don’t get enough of it!
Stephanie // SheSawStyle.com
Same here. I really need more sleep. My body clock is not on the right time zone. lol It would definitely help with my workout schedule, that’s for sure. Thanks Stephanie! Have a great week!
Xo,
Miki
I am a true believer in random acts of kindness & plenty of sleep ! Great tips. And you look lovely in this post, beautiful photographs 🙂
xx, gracie
snappedbygracie.com
Same here. 🙂 Thanks Gracie!
Xo,
Miki
I’m sleep deprived girl haha but I absolutely love all these tips! Being true to oneself, random act of kindness and embracing the child in us are so important!
Also obsessed with your look! It’s gorgeous
Bisous, Josie
http://www.petiteandbold.com
Oh, I feel you. I’m still sleeping in God-knows-what time zone. I could definitely use some good sleep! I hope you get more of it girl.
Xo,
Miki
What a great outfit! And I’m loving your tips. Acts of Kindness always help!
Love, Lindsey
http://www.thenomisniche.com/
Thanks Lindsey!
Xo,
Miki
Awesome habits to remember! So important.
Xx
Molly
http://www.trendychickadee.com
Thanks Molly. Glad you enjoyed the post.
Xo,
Miki
Very amazing insights and perfect recommendations for a happy life! Plus cool colour combo outfit!
http://www.bunnybernice.com/single-post/2016/11/23/Breathable-Hair
Thanks Bernice!
Xo,
Miki
so many amazing tips!!
Thanks for sharing!!
http://www.cranberrytantrums.com
Glad you enjoyed it Jenn! Thanks so much for your lovely comment! Have a wonderful week.
Xo,
Miki
Yes, totally agree. I need to practices more. Great post babe.
xoxo, Rachel
http://www.rachelvogttrends.com
Thanks so much Rachel!
Xo,
Miki
Miki, you are so amazing! Thanks for sharing this inspiration. I totally agree with all the points you’ve made, especially staying true to yourself. That is very important! P.S. Love your outfit!!! xoxo, sharon
http://www.stylelullaby.com/beauty/reversing-age-foreo-luna-play/
Thanks so much Sharon! Glad you enjoyed the post. 🙂 Have a great week babe.
Xo,
Miki
First of, I loveee your outfit! That top is sooooo cute! I love the distressed jeans too! I have been trying to find some that would actually fit me perfectly! I love your post by the way! I have to agree with all of them because it is good to be true to yourself, if you focus on others and just do what others want you to do, you will be miserable and stressed. My problem is not getting enough sleep! That is one thing I have been trying to focus on because blogging and working a full time job is a lot of stress. So I try to relax on the weekend to make up for it even though it doesn’t do justice if I don’t sleep throughout the week. Thank you for the reminder Miki!
Linh
http://xcapewithlinh.com/
Omigosh girl. I totally know what you mean. I could really use more sleep. Haha. Blogging is really a busy job that requires attention around the clock! I hope you get much more rest and make it a goal to be well rested. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
Yes! I am with you on these! Taking that time out to reset is so important to make sure that you start the new year with a bang.
xx Jenelle
http://www.inspiringwit.com/
Thanks Jenelle! Here’s to a healthy 2017!
Xo,
Miki
Ah I love all of these tips!! Everyone should read this. I truly believe each point holds high significance in achieving a happier life! I think I definitely need to meditate more, so I’ll work on that 🙂 PS I love your top and the vibrant colors and ruffles!
XO Jenn
http://www.jennsemble.com
My friend is so good at meditating every day. I seriously could spend an extra 15 minutes doing that every day, too. 🙂 Thanks Jenn!
Xo,
Miki
You look so beautiful babe, liked your sweater and all the photos…great post hun…xo, Neha
theinstylejournal.com/
Thanks so much Neha!
Xo,
Miki
Such a great post! Totally agree on meditation and sleep! I’ve recently started mediating and helps me so much! You are such an inspiration and so chic too! Love this look!
Have a Happy Thanksgiving, love!!!
xoxo, Vanessa
http://www.WhatWouldVWear.com
Thanks Vanessa! Meditating is really so relaxing, right!?
Xo,
Miki
First of all I absolutely love this sweater and those great images! Thank you so much for all these great tips/habits you shared. I love every single one of them especially “Compliments and Acts of Kindness”. We live in this world where we are all very busy with lives so often we forget how to act nice and be kind to the people around you. Great reminder especially for the holiday season.
xo,
Jo
http://www.glamfashionbook.com
Thanks Jo. It’s amazing how happy it makes people feel when you do something small for them. It goes a long way. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
This sweater is amazing! good outfit 😀
xxPamolina
http://www.pamolina.com
Thanks so much Pamolina! Have a lovely week!
Xo,
Miki
Such a stunning look! Love your style and the setting is also amazing! 🙂
Liebe Grüße, Fiona THEDASHINGRIDER.com
Thanks so much Fiona!
Xo,
Miki
I completely agree! Happiness comes from putting kindness out there without expecting anything in return. I love the way you paired the bright jumper with the distressed jeans. Super cute as always!
Dora
http://www.adropofindigo.com/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkaSnh8OS3XmuL87VEkskgQ
Thanks so much Dora! A little act of kindness sure goes a long way, right? 🙂
Xo,
Miki
Thank yo u for sharing this beautiful message! I think being true to yourself is one of the most important habit one can have 🙂
xoxo
Fe Samaia
Thanks Fe! Being true to yourself is always recommended. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
Definetly agree with these! Getting at least 8 hours of sleep a night greatly benefits me!
I always need more sleep. lol Thanks Camille. Have a great week!
Xo,
Miki
sleep is so key! I get so grumpy and stressed when I don’t get enough sleep. I love these tips, they are so accurate! and I love that cute top you’re wearing here!
http://www.prettyinleather.net
I agree! Lack of sleep can seriously put me in a mood where I’m less social, and that’s a total bummer. Thanks Yuka!
Xo,
Miki
Thanks for sharing your tips to a happier outlook on life! This is such a great list. Random acts of kindness is definitely a great way of feeling good. Even a little thing as giving someone a smile and saying, “Hello” or “Good morning” is really uplifting 🙂
xo, Jo
http://www.cutandchic.com
So true! I didn’t even think of simplify it to something as small as that. It’s so funny that giving a simple smile can be so uplifting. 🙂 Thanks Jo!
Xo,
Miki
I am in love with your outfit! So gorgeous from head to toe. Great tips as well and I find the exercise and kindness parts very true.
XoXo Noma
Awwww thank you for all your thoughtful tips!! Will definitely have to work on those!
Happy THANKSGIVING to you and your family!
With Love,
Yuena
http://simplyyue.wordpress.com
Thanks so much Yuena! Glad you enjoyed the post!
Xo,
Miki
Great post Miki, I couldn’t agree more! I myself realized a couple of days ago that, more often than none, I don’t compliment as much as I should. The worst part of it is I also forget to payback compliments, which I beat myself about more. Paying complement doesn’t only make the other person feels good, it actually also makes you the giver feel good when you see the smile on the other persons face. A lot of us might not think of it this way, but taking note to pay other people complements really does contribute to personal happiness. You couldn’t have said it better.
xoxo
Bukky
http://www.aalobukky.com/
I totally agree. Sometimes when someone is having a bad day, a small compliment can really boost their day! Sometimes we think it’s so silly to keep to ourselves, but really, a lot of people really appreciate things like that. 🙂 Don’t be so hard on yourself. People don’t pay compliments expecting one in return. It’s truly nice to do once in awhile as a selfless act. 🙂
Xo,
Miki
I love all these tips you’ve shared to living a happier, healthier life. They’re so simple but also all very applicable to everybody! I’ve been having some struggles with my career path, but I always try to take time to meditate and get ample sleep! Despite how diligent I work, I always set aside time to relax and unwind as well for some balance in my life.
xoxo
http://www.atsunamatsui.com
I always need more sleep. Since moving to the US, I haven’t had the same level of sleep and am so excited to adjust it a little more! It increases quality of life! Thanks Atsuna!
Xo,
Miki
YES! “Being true to yourself” – I also define this as accepting who you are which can be difficult at times when everything is defined by someone else standards. This is the basic tool of a happy life. Enjoyed your post, Miki! xoxo
Much love,
Sugar
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I notice that sleep is such a key element in our everyday life! i struggle to perform at work when i’m sleep deprive and i become grumpy. I guess I really need to work on my sleeps 🙂
xx,
Jessie
http://4evajessie.com/review-your-2016/
Sleep makes such a huge different, doesn’t it?! I hope you get more! Thanks Jessie!
Xo,
Miki
http://mikialamode.com
Such a gorgeous unique top! love it
http://www.beautiliciousd.blogspot.com
Love your pick from the H&M X KENZO collection! It looks so great on you! And such an inspirational post, thank you of this!
xx
http://www.sanssouci.website
Thanks so much!
Xo,
Miki
What a beautiful post, Miki! I think complimenting and random acts of kindness are one of the easiest and best ways to show others you care! You look gorgeous in all your photos! Hope you have a wonderful weekend! xo
Luci’s Morsels | fashion. food. frivolity.
Wow these photos are gorgeous! I’m so sad I missed out on the keno x hm collaboration. But I get to see it vicariously through you 😉 I’m all about the random acts of kindness. I got all these gourmet chocolates as a blog gift and after eating way too much of it, I gave it away and the person went on about how much their kids loved it. It made me so happy! I was like I need to do more of this.
xx Yasmin
http://banglesandbungalows.com
It sold out so fast, didn’t it?! Usually when we buy bulk or have a lot of food, Tom and I give some to the homeless. Also, if we don’t finish our food at the dinner table, we pack it up and as we drive and see someone living on the street, we give it to them, too. Seriously, it’s so easy to take small things such as food for granted. Thanks so much Yasmin for that reminder!
Xo,
Miki
Love that top! Such a great look!
Thanks Alicia!
Xo,
Miki
Adorable pictures!
Have a nice week-end!
Gil Zetbase
http://gilzetbase.com/
Thanks Gil!
Xo,
Miki
Aw this is a great post, so nice to see some positivity like this! Your posts are my favourite! x
adelelydia.blogspot.com
Thanks so much Adele! That is truly the greatest compliment! Have a wonderful week!
Xo,
Miki
Love these tips! They’re all so simple and important xx, Erin – http://www.stylebythepeople.com
Thanks so much Erin! Happy you enjoyed the post!
Xo,
Miki
all of these are so crucial!! especially sleep! People underestimate it haha love the post
francesca
Frank Vinyl : A California Fashion Blog
Thanks so much Francesca! So glad you enjoyed it.
Xo,
Miki
I love these tips and live by them almost every day!
Jordan xx
http://www.thehatlogic.com
Thanks Jordon! That’s awesome!
Xo,
Miki
These are great tips! We all should embrace the kid in us more and just be goofy for a bit. Laughter truly is the best cure for everything.
Nothing like a big smile and sharing a laugh with friends, right? 🙂 Thanks Laura!
Xo,
Miki
Awesome tips! x
http://www.tlmurban.com
Thanks MJ!
Xo,
Miki
Absolutely love this post babe!! So many good ways to be and leading a happy life. Btw love your outfit. The sweater is so cute.
Xx
Marcy
Thanks so much Marcy! It’s cozy, too. 🙂 Have a wonderful week!
Xo,
Miki
Thanks so much Marcy! It’s cozy, too. 🙂 Have a wonderful week!
Xo,
Miki